Keith Urban detailed a dark period in his and Nicole Kidman’s marriage during an emotional speech one year before their bombshell separation.

The country singer told AFI Life Achievement Award Gala attendees in April 2024 about the time he nearly “blew” up their relationship.

The “American Idol” judge, who wed Kidman in June 2006, explained that his substance abuse struggles came to a head “barely four months into” their union.

Keith Urban admitted he once nearly “blew” up his and Nicole Kidman’s marriage in an emotional speech last year. Xavier Collin/Image Press Agency/MEGA
The country singer described the dark period, which occurred early into their marriage. American Film Institiue/Youtube

“My addictions … that I’d done really nothing about, blew our marriage to smithereens,” Urban, 57, recalled. “Four months into a marriage, I’m in rehab for three months.

“I had no idea what was going to happen to us,” he continued at the time. “And if you want to see what love in action really looks like, give that a whirl.”

Urban praised the actress, 58, for sticking by him during the tough period.

“Four months in, I’m in rehab for three months,” he said at an April 2024 event. American Film Institiue/Youtube
Kidman teared up in the audience as her husband spoke. American Film Institiue/Youtube

“Nic pushed through every negative voice, I’m sure even some of her own, and she chose love,” he continued as Kidman teared up in the audience. “And here we are tonight, 18 years later.”

The duo’s daughters — Sunday Rose, 17, and Faith Margaret, 14 — were present at the event.

Urban told audience members that the teens girls were “very lucky to be learning” from Kidman, noting that he felt the same way.

Urban praised his wife for sticking by him, saying the actress “chose love.” Getty Images for Karl Lagerfeld
He called himself — and their daughters — “very lucky to be learning” from Kidman. Rick Diamond

“I’ve actually never met anyone who has such a passion for being alive,” he added. “She knows the importance of expressing feelings.”

Urban has yet to speak out since news broke Monday of him and Kidman calling it quits after nearly 20 years of marriage.

The pair’s last joint appearance was at a FIFA Club World Cup 2025 game in June.

News broke Monday that he and the “Big Little Lies” alum have separated after nearly 20 years of marriage. WireImage
The duo are the parents of daughters Sunday Rose, 17, and Faith Margaret, 14. FilmMagic

That same month, Kidman acknowledged their 19th anniversary in a touching Instagram tribute — and Urban, notably, did not post one of his own.

Instead, the Grammy winner commented on his partner’s post with a heart emoji.

Kidman was previously married to Tom Cruise from 1990 to 2001, with whom she adopted daughter Isabella, 32, and son Connor, 30.

Keith Urban and Nicole Kidman pose together on a red carpet.
Keith Urban admitted he once nearly “blew” up his and Nicole Kidman’s marriage in an emotional speech last year. Xavier Collin/Image Press Agency/MEGA
Keith Urban speaking at the AFI Awards.
The country singer described the dark period, which occurred early into their marriage. American Film Institiue/Youtube
Keith Urban at AFI Awards 2024.
“Four months in, I’m in rehab for three months,” he said at an April 2024 event. American Film Institiue/Youtube
Nicole Kidman at the AFI Awards 2024.
Kidman teared up in the audience as her husband spoke. American Film Institiue/Youtube
Keith Urban in a black tuxedo and Nicole Kidman in a light pink feathered and beaded gown at the Met Gala.
Urban praised his wife for sticking by him, saying the actress “chose love.” Getty Images for Karl Lagerfeld
Keith Urban embracing Nicole Kidman.
He called himself — and their daughters — “very lucky to be learning” from Kidman. Rick Diamond
Goodwill Ambassador Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban playing drums.
News broke Monday that he and the “Big Little Lies” alum have separated after nearly 20 years of marriage. WireImage
Keith Urban, Sunday Rose Kidman Urban, Faith Margaret Kidman Urban, Sybella Hawley, and Nicole Kidman attend the 49th AFI Life Achievement Award Gala.
The duo are the parents of daughters Sunday Rose, 17, and Faith Margaret, 14. FilmMagic

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