Larry Fitzmaurice
Sun, October 19, 2025 at 5:02 PM UTC
3 min read
If you’ve spent some time online this week, you’ve probably seen clips or quotes of an interview Jennifer Lopez recently gave to Howard Stern — specifically because of her comments about her past relationships.
When Howard (who, it must be said, is a goated interviewer) asked J.Lo if she’s ever “truly been loved,” she replied “no” before changing her answer to a “yes.” “What I learned is it’s not that I’m not lovable,” she elaborated. “It’s that they’re not capable.”
Now, life is long, and it often involves relationships with many people — and in regards to J.Lo’s life specifically, her comments could be referring to multiple people, especially people she’s been married to. One of those people is Ojani Noa, who she was very briefly married to from 1997 to 1998.
Well, Ojani apparently got wind of his ex-wife’s comments, because he posted a blistering response on IG alleging that their marriage failed because of her infidelity.
“Hahaha.. let me just say Stop putting us down,” he wrote in an apparent open letter to J.Lo. “Stop putting Me Down with your victim card. The problem it’s not us. Not Me. The Problem it’s You. You the one who couldn’t keep it in Your pants.”
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“You have been ‘Loved’ few Times. You been married 4 Times. And have had countless relationships in between. You have had good relationships.. Me for example. I was in loved with you. I even move out of state leaving my Job, my family and friends behind to support you, to loved you to protect you and care for you.”
“I’m an amazing loving person, great human being. honest, faithful, loving to you, never lied, never miss behave, never CHEATED on You. I was to GOOD for you.. I’m too Good of a Men for you..”
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“But you. You chose FAME and FORTUNE moving apart of our relationship. You decided to lie, to CHEAT on me and even though I stayed. I even tried to keep the marriage going and alive. You even begged me to stay because at the time You didn’t want bad Press caring more about you. About your career instead of saving the marriage and I stayed.”
“But you, you when for the fast line of your career/stardom not caring about Me. You wanted to Continue on Cheating and lying. I couldn’t stay anymore and deal with the constantly lying, That’s why I left You, that’s why I Divorced You.”
“Tell the truth for once. Let people know you are the problem. You should be Embarrassed, ashamed of your self.”
Allllllllrighty then! What a statement. We’ve asked J.Lo’s reps for further comment, and if we hear back we’ll let you know.
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