Larry Fitzmaurice

Sun, October 19, 2025 at 5:02 PM UTC

3 min read

If you’ve spent some time online this week, you’ve probably seen clips or quotes of an interview Jennifer Lopez recently gave to Howard Stern — specifically because of her comments about her past relationships.

Jennifer Lopez wearing an ornate, reflective outfit poses with raised arms on stage, exuding confidence and energy
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When Howard (who, it must be said, is a goated interviewer) asked J.Lo if she’s ever “truly been loved,” she replied “no” before changing her answer to a “yes.” “What I learned is it’s not that I’m not lovable,” she elaborated. “It’s that they’re not capable.”

Jennifer Lopez in strapless dress with sleek updo and statement necklace, posing at a formal event
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Now, life is long, and it often involves relationships with many people — and in regards to J.Lo’s life specifically, her comments could be referring to multiple people, especially people she’s been married to. One of those people is Ojani Noa, who she was very briefly married to from 1997 to 1998.

Ojani Noa and Jennifer Lopez at an event; man in a stylish double-breasted suit, woman in an elegant, shimmering dress with a shawl, both smiling and holding hands
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Well, Ojani apparently got wind of his ex-wife’s comments, because he posted a blistering response on IG alleging that their marriage failed because of her infidelity.

“Hahaha.. let me just say Stop putting us down,” he wrote in an apparent open letter to J.Lo. “Stop putting Me Down with your victim card. The problem it’s not us. Not Me. The Problem it’s You. You the one who couldn’t keep it in Your pants.”

Ojani Noa and Jennifer Lopez posing on an event carpet. The woman is wearing an elegant, fitted, sleeveless dress; the man is in a pinstripe suit with a tie
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“You have been ‘Loved’ few Times. You been married 4 Times. And have had countless relationships in between. You have had good relationships.. Me for example. I was in loved with you. I even move out of state leaving my Job, my family and friends behind to support you, to loved you to protect you and care for you.”

Ojani Noa and Jennifer Lopez on a red carpet. The woman wears an elegant, draped gown with a shawl, and the man is in a classic tuxedo
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“I’m an amazing loving person, great human being. honest, faithful, loving to you, never lied, never miss behave, never CHEATED on You. I was to GOOD for you.. I’m too Good of a Men for you..”

Ojani Noa and Jennifer Lopez on a red carpet; the woman wears a shimmering, fitted gown with a high slit, and the man is in a suit
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“But you. You chose FAME and FORTUNE moving apart of our relationship. You decided to lie, to CHEAT on me and even though I stayed. I even tried to keep the marriage going and alive. You even begged me to stay because at the time You didn’t want bad Press caring more about you. About your career instead of saving the marriage and I stayed.”

Ojani Noa and Jennifer Lopez stands on a red carpet event. The woman wears an elegant gown while the man dons a classic suit
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“But you, you when for the fast line of your career/stardom not caring about Me. You wanted to Continue on Cheating and lying. I couldn’t stay anymore and deal with the constantly lying, That’s why I left You, that’s why I Divorced You.”

Ojani Noa and Jennifer Lopez on a red carpet; the woman wears a sleek, sleeveless gown, and the man wears a sharp tuxedo
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“Tell the truth for once. Let people know you are the problem. You should be Embarrassed, ashamed of your self.”

Jennifer Lopez and Ojani Noa on a red carpet. The woman wears a lace gown, the man a shiny suit and tie
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Allllllllrighty then! What a statement. We’ve asked J.Lo’s reps for further comment, and if we hear back we’ll let you know.

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